Communicating with Your Doctor
Do you forget all your questions when your doctor walks into the room? You are not alone. Exam-room anxiety is common.
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Prepare for your visit
Bring a list of concerns and questions
- Show the list to your doctor.
- Tell your doctor what hurts, what looks or feels different, like a mole that has changed.
- Talk about difficult or sensitive topics, like emotional problems, sexual concerns, or drinking habits. Your doctor keeps what you say confidential.
- Ask questions.
Talk about your care
- Make sure you understand what your doctor says. If you don’t, ask the doctor to explain it.
- Ask what tests you should have.
- Ask about preventive care and lifestyle changes to improve your health.
Between visits
- Call your doctor’s office if you have questions about your health.
- More doctors take e-mails now. If you want, ask how to e-mail your doctor.
- Leave your name, phone number, and the best times you reach you.
- Leave your cell phone number if you have one. Many doctors return calls in the evening.
- Ask who will return your call—your doctor, a nurse, or someone else.
- Ask how long it will take for someone to get back to you.
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